I am a mother of three, who's been married to the father of my children for 12 years. My children adored their grandfather, my father, who died on Mother's Day this year. My mother and father were married December 10, 1964, and raised six children together. Mom never handled the bills, that was always Dad's concern (they were both disabled and on Social Security since the late '70s). We discovered after Dad died that the property my mother knew as her home was only deeded in his name, not Mom's, which would not be a problem if it weren't for the fact that Dad had a lot of debt. We live in Virginia, which is not a community property state, so legally my mother has no claimes to the property until all my father's debts are paid, even though most of the money used to purchase the property was my mother's Social Security. My mother is frantic, worried she will lose her home. I cannot do much to help out right now, since my husband makes very little, even though he is employed fulltime. Any help, legal or otherwise, would be appreciated. I do not want my mother worrying in her golden years. Thank you.
I joined Aidpage a few days ago. I was directed to this site for encouragement and to seek receive financial help.I have not received any financial help so far and thats ok because I do not want any...see full post
This post is a sad one but I'm sure there are others out there who are going through a lot of the same things I am going through. I joined Aidpage a couple of days ago to ask for help paying my bills...see full post
Here since: Jan 28, 2010
Female
pryor, oklahoma
Languages: english
my 3 month old passed away feb.15th 2009 i have so many bills associated with his death and have 3 other children to support .i am looking to go back to work so i can pay these bills off and support m...see full post
Me and Mom when I was a kid, and Me, Mom and my sister when we all reunited. Little did we know this would be the last time she was at my house. After 25 years, I quit smoking in May.
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As we get older, the people we get to enjoy holiday traditions and memories gets lesser and lesser. I was so brainwashed that I severed relations with my own mother. She never did anything wrong but I...
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Here since: Dec 18, 2009
Female
EL Paso, Texas
Languages: English
I'm writing this for my mom. She needs help. My Dad passed away not too long ago due to hospital mistakes- which they of course denied when she tried ot sue them for malpractice (they punctured his c...see full post
Here since: Dec 6, 2009
Female, 31
Sales
Charlotte, NC
Languages: English
I am a single mother of 3 young children. I lost my husband last spring to a car accident. I got behind in my house payments trying to pay for his funeral and Medical bills. I am close to losing my ho...see full post
Here since: Nov 29, 2009
Female, 26
Housewife
Lubbock, Texas
Languages: English
Hi me and my husband have five children from the ages 7 years to 10 months old, my husbands father just died on the 22nd and he had to miss a week of work. We live from pay check to pay check so we a ...see full post
Here since: Nov 24, 2009
Female, 49
trying to figure it all out
Richmond, va
Languages: eng
Stumbled here...searching for assistance with my bills....this is probaby a bogus site but maybe I should write to vent. I am a single mom (aren't we all) My house was repossed due to lack of pa...see full post
i need help please i owe 1,500 dollars to the irs,
my credit is so screwed up i wish i could fix it,
im trying my best working my ass off,
but i really really need new tires im riding on 2 spare tires...see full post
By Jeffrey D. Barnett (a Marine officer and Iraq War Veteran):
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Here since: Oct 17, 2009
Female, 46
disabled
cherryville, nc
Languages: english
at last a place where i can talk to someone about my troubles...iam 45 my husband is 55 we have been married 30 years...we are both disabled.draw small checks and are struggling to pay our bills.would...see full post